我是一名基督徒但另一半不是,教我什麼面對我的教會及教友???

2006-12-24 6:22 am
我是一名基督徒但另一半不是,教我什麼面對我的教會及教友??? 請基督徒作答!!!

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2006-12-24 6:40 pm
✔ 最佳答案
Totally support you! Every believer started as a non-believer. If people in ur church judge you, don't worry about them because Jesus teaches us not to judge. Let them do the talk because God knows exactly what they think and say as well as what u have gone through. So please don't feel bad. Just bring ur partner to church like the way people bring their non-Christian friends to church. I don't see why ur partner wouldn't be welcome.

Honestly, personality-wise, Christians are not necessarily better than non-Christians. (My bf is soooooo horrible... hahahahaha...) My bf and I are both Christians and I think it's a blessing because even though we fight a whole lot because we are so different in many ways, the one thing that hold us together is our faith in God. That's why it would be nice if our partners are also Christians even though it does not mean bad things would not happen.

Since ur partner is not one, then as a Christian, you should spread the gospel to the non-believer. I am sure u became a Christian for some good reasons and of course u would want to share that with ur significant other. I highly recommand u to pray WITH him. God will help u for sure. (maybe not in ur time frame but God will do the work) There's an auntie in my old church and her husband refused to be a Christian for 13 yrs. Every Sunday the uncle would just sit in the car outside and wait for auntie to finish whatever she was doing in church. However, one time the uncle listened to a sermon or sharing and all of the sudden he was willing to be a christian! Isn't that amazing? In God nothing is impossible. Plus, you have this opportunity to bring a lost soul to Christ! Yea~
2006-12-29 9:43 pm
你係基督徒,另一半係咪基督徒ge好壞我相信你都知,我就唔多講啦
另一半係非基督徒的話,是錯的嗎?
如果係錯,但教會根本就係罪人組成ge群体;不如叫無犯過罪ge拋第一塊石頭
當然,我地亦明白每個教會有佢ge傳統,開放(開明)程度亦有異
所以我反以想你思想下保羅提到信心大ge人為左信心小ge人而唔去做d本來可以做ge野
感情投入左唔係話抽返就抽返
點面對又係雙方ge問題,唔係你話點就點
若你教會較老土,覺得同非基拍拖係好唔arm,咁不如先去d無咁老土ge教會先;教會無咁老土,我估你另一半都易d接受
2006-12-26 10:00 pm
自稱系[[耶穌基督]]果位牙生,,
請你吾好再呃分,,!!!
吾系基督徒又要入黎搗亂,,
仲要每次答人都系要呢個答案,,!!
唉....

你可以同你另一半傳福音,,
同佢講你信左基督有咩改變,,
睇下佢信吾信,,
吾信既話真系冇咩辦法既,,
因為呢D野要慢慢黎=]
希望你你的另一半盡快信主啦!!
2006-12-25 10:33 am
教我什麼面對我的教會及教友??
你係什麼意思呢?
即係話因為另一半不是基督徒而令你感到難堪?
如果你愛你ge上帝過於你ge另一半的話,你都係同佢分手啦,
如果你愛你ge另一半過於你ge上帝的話,你就離開基督教啦,
因為你不可以勉強佢去為左你而信,
佢亦都唔可以勉強你離開基督教呀.
參考: 我
2006-12-24 4:12 pm
sorry , 有一樣野我明白 , 就係...什麼叫做 "我是一名基督徒但另一半不是" ???
是就是 , 不是就不是 .
信就信 , 不信就不信 .
什麼叫做 "我是一名基督徒但另一半不是"呢 ???
2006-12-24 10:01 am
哥林多前書
7:12 我對其餘的人說(不是主說):倘若某弟兄有不信的妻子,妻子也情願和他同住,他就不要離棄妻子。
7:13 妻子有不信的丈夫,丈夫也情願和她同住,她就不要離棄丈夫。
7:14 因為不信的丈夫就因著妻子成了聖潔,並且不信的妻子就因著丈夫(原文是弟兄)成了聖潔。不然,你們的兒女就不潔淨,但如今他們是聖潔的了。
7:15 倘若那不信的人要離去,就由他離去吧!無論是弟兄,是姊妹,遇著這樣的事都不必拘束。 神召我們原是要我們和睦。
7:16 你這作妻子的,怎麼知道不能救你的丈夫呢?你這作丈夫的,怎麼知道不能救你的妻子呢?

以上經文解答已左問題吧, 但就算係咁我覺得應讓你另一半多d有認識主. 因能認識主的確係有福的
參考: Bible and myself
2006-12-24 7:51 am
嘗試下叫你另一半返教會,可以令到佢繼續教會或信主當然好
如果唔肯返教會,起小組活動ga時候叫埋佢去lor(e.g. bbq、唱k ar指)
其實都係起你組長認識lor
等你組長可以祝福你地ar ma
祝福你ar~
2006-12-24 6:36 am
如果你在受浸前結婚,一般的基督教會,會叫你努力令你的另一半信教。

如果是極端甚至異端的教會,會叫你迫另一半信教,如果唔信你就要離開你的另一半,另找一個信教的。

如果你在受浸後才結婚,你當然唔可以在教堂結婚,而好多教會的人根本亦都唔會祝福你,因為佢地會引用聖經話不是信神的人不能同負一軛。

你可以點做?如果佢地包容你,當然無事,你咪鼓勵你既另一半返下教會。

如果佢地有人用言語或行動迫害你,你大可以唔理佢地,返過第二間教會,因為你的教會和教友根本對人無愛,亦都無可能將神的愛帶比你。你毋須同任何人交代,只須向神交代。
2006-12-24 6:36 am
哈…原來我都唔係孤單一人係咁!其實可以嘗試帶佢返教會,我明白你點解有這種不知如何面對教會及教友的感覺!但你選擇了他便不要因這樣而和他分手,因為這對他不公平!但首先要同佢講得清清楚楚你自己的想法,如︰我希望他願意嘗試去接觸這位神等,如果日子久了他仍然不相信的話就要考慮……但老實講這是很難做到的!不果我身邊有一對都係咁﹐最後都結了婚,其實最關鍵的是你有沒有為他去祈禱,為他的信仰去祈,既然神給了他在你身邊,你可以就這件事去放上信心,我們做不到的﹐神做到!但其實都應該用平常心,因為無論到最後仲係咪一齊,都希望佢能夠成為一份子!明白沒有!一同努力吧!我自問講就得……我都好想做到!可唔可以同你做一個朋友?
我的mail︰[email protected]
參考: 自己
2006-12-24 6:30 am
如果你唔介意的,可需理理會教友的目光,
你或者可以要你另一半同你一齊返教會
參考: 自己


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