不要再愛他的”方法”(對我要有效)

我 also have this situation when I am young(now not old )study in the school
我和他是同學..也是朋友, me lei he said"" you are my best girl of the friend in the world""
他也知道我喜歡他, love him but he say"study is the most important , we must force on it""ok , I study la....but once a day , he told me that he loves my best friend .....(I call him is A)
what can I do ? why he say that to me ? etc ..... all of this question in my mind ........
when I am in f.1........ crying ..... crying and crying ........my study result is 10 in my class. what I can force on ? no one can talk ( we study in difference schoo;)than 我
都裝做不在乎,than after 4 years ....when I am in f.5 need hkcee la.......我還是會想起他,
at that times , my classmates said someone love me (I call him is B) B is the best study result in my class when I hear that 我裝做什麼都不知道 . I don't know why A know this thing (maybe someone tell him la) he say"" u can date with B''haha....... do u happy when u hear this? than everything come down after hkcee .... I go to f.6 by my heart I love A more than myself . but he lei? I try you say method"":想忘記一個人,就先愛上另一個人"" I can tell u this is no use because in yr heart only have 1 people , u can't forget and don't love ..................than f.7 AL la ......at that time la ......he don't talk to me by phone la .....(we don't have computer before)he don't care me la ......haha.....
if u were me , what can u do ? my friend say "'forget him la, he doesn't love u ""than I try ""la ........ but not useful .......now I am working in the social .........our relationship is break down
I just tell you that method hope can help u
-when u thinking of him just doing something what u do not like . anything is ok just u don't like is ok
-when u thinking of him , u image that he is kissing a gil and he made love with other girl
-when u thinking of him , u don't phone to him and don't icq, man to him just do otherthing what u don't like or hate
-when u have something unhappy thing or happy happen , just only talk to yr friend
-when u thinking of him , accept it and go on . write on your darily (日記).when u have freedom time ,u can read it ..................
I can tell u that it must help u for you to forget him ( at lease u don't like him)and youand your friend(他) relationship is go on ....... no problem 也不處在尷尬的狀態.
u say寧願永遠不表白, u can do it and u must accept your result
完全放棄他is not easy , I can told you that I try those method more and more yeear ......noone can understand ......I also want to give up him . those method help me become a new human and a new girl , now I have bf . he loves me and I love him too^^
time and yr heart is important .......method in yr heart -just only u can do it -time is the most important thing to give up someone u love
hope God bless you and merry christiam !!!

你幾大呀?
如果小学~
唔緊要，大個都唔一定會marry佢喇，要專心讀書，唔好掛住男女朋友喇
如果中学~
唔好擔心，就算到佢鐘意你，你都唔一定鐘意佢，做普通朋友好喇，唔好再掛住呢D事喇
如果大学~
放心，世上有好多男人，應該仲有好D嘅。冇就送花俾佢~表白，在佢面前做好D

無論幾大將來嘅事冇得預測，轉一轉想法，D嘢可能會便好
加油！

我都係....好(cry) 在你hoilday時去play with other boy....but 如果你day day 都see到he...就唔ok la~!只好give自己一個目標......專心你的課業去令he 喜歡你 可能會好d

其實我都試過咁樣．．．但係唔得～
發生新戀情都唔得架．．．都係忘記唔到佢～
可能你太愛佢啦,,所以忘記唔到佢！～
最好都係：唔好見佢,,盡量唔好諗起佢囉～諗起佢就同自己講：佢都唔係中２我,,我何必要諗起佢呢？！

試下,,可能work架呢個方法～(對我黎講就唔ｗｏｒｋ～）

希望幫到你啦～

朋友
你又唔洗林到咁灰既
可能有人報假料呢
佢裝做不在乎
都係裝姐
佢可能好開心呢
既然有咁多可能
你又唔知
你一係繼續暗戀佢
一係就直接明戀佢
勉強鍾意或者忘記一個人係好辛苦嫁!!無謂傷身又傷心啦~