男朋友.唉.....

2006-12-20 6:09 am
我同我男朋友1直都冇話點熱戀期,又冇話咩冷淡期.
總之1直好平淡,但係好穩定,好少嘈交,
見面時候好開心,但係因為佢要返工,我返學,所以見面時間唔多,
有時1星期見1次,有時1個月先見得1至2次,
我地1齊左半年有多,1直都keep住有見面,有時傾電話,
不過佢不嬲吾係咁鍾意傾電話{佢唔係剩係唔鍾意同我傾,係唔鍾意同所有人傾}所以傾電話有時只會1句起2句止,
不過差5多次次放假佢都會約我,睇下我得唔得閒陪佢咁..

不過最近我覺得佢開始唔再係咁,
我打比佢佢都好冷淡{佢2前有時都會咁,}
但係放假都冇再約我出街,{連續2星期}
今日我放膽主動約佢,佢都話唔知幾時得閒陪我,
好唔開心,本身我地2經好少時間見,佢e+仲要唔多理我咁,
連我主動約佢佢都咁冷淡,
我e+連電話都唔敢打比佢,因為佢都唔想聽我電話咁,,
我應該點做?!

回答 (7)

2006-12-20 7:09 am
✔ 最佳答案
m...你地之間既關係 我作為外人唔作評論

只係有少少問題想你諗一諗
佢話自己都唔知幾時得閒可以陪你
會唔會係因為工作既壓力~? 工作令到佢覺得累~?
唔好將全部心機放曬係兩個人之間既感情
嘗試一下關心佢既工作 ( 關心不等於質問 問個時要注意語氣 ^^ )
因為出呢做野真係幾辛苦嫁~

同埋仲有一點
你話佢有時覺得你煩
係你自己諗多左 定係 佢自己講~?
仲有 男仔覺得煩並唔係因為女方成日搵佢
而係感覺到有壓力
你有陣時會唔會唔覺意俾左一d令佢難受既"管制"~?
管制唔係唔好 不過最緊要適中 千奇唔好過多
過多既話就會令對方反感

so.. 嘗試一下關心佢 體諒一下佢要開工既辛酸
正等於你要返學考試都有壓力一樣
有陣時如果佢因為開工而做到好累
就俾佢休息一下啦 relax吧

enjoy your love ^^
參考: 個人愚見
2006-12-21 6:58 am
其實呢! 你現在唔好唔開心, 亦唔好諗太多負面答案…

因為對自己都唔好啦…其實你都好清楚你男朋友係咩性格…

亦都好了解佢…雖然佢現在行為上令你唔開心, 又或者令到你亂諗….

但你都知男人做野上黎咩都唔會理, 亦會時時忽略身邊的人....

但唔代表佢沒有你, 雖然現在對你不采不理…但你比多少少時間他....

假如佢仍然對你一樣…不釆不理, 亦唔在乎你的話, 到時你先再諗啦…

要愛自己多一點!!
參考: ^ - *
2006-12-21 12:05 am
我覺得你同佢之間不能再傳有男女朋友既關係,
咁少見都咁冷淡, 我覺得無論點忙點都好, 至少一日都有一個電話,
唔需要講好多野, 講幾句都好足夠, 起碼知道大道有咩事發生過。
既然你亦都做過主動, 佢亦都冇特別 feedback,
倒不如了結左呢段感情, 你仲後生, 你應該想下佢係未真係適合你。
2006-12-20 7:08 pm
其實呢, 有時男人做既野, 女人係唔會明白架... 我唔敢肯定佢對你係咪變左, 但係如果佢真係變左既話, 其實你自己應該感覺到...
有陣時, 男人, 特別係已經有自己既事業既男人, 唔鐘意同人分享自己既心底話..一黎佢會覺得就算佢講左都唔會有人幫到佢.... 二黎佢會覺得佢自己好無用, 點都收埋收埋...唔比人知... 但係其實個樣就話晒比人聽佢有好多野煩咁.... 我個人覺得呢d係好多男人既behavior黎既.......包括我自己果個...
我覺得你可以嘗試下同佢分擔下, 問下佢係咪工作壓力太大呀? 係咪呢排做野好唔開心呀? 如果佢真係唔肯話你知既話, 你唔好再問, 因為如果佢唔想講而你繼續問既話, 反而會令佢覺得更加煩, 你可以做既野就係陪住佢, 咩都唔好講, 唔好做, 等佢知道仲有你晌佢身邊支持緊佢....唔好放棄呀!!!
參考: 個人經歷
2006-12-20 6:47 am
相愛不是要日日見的
不過唔傾計好大問題
2006-12-20 6:20 am
i think communication is very important. if you really have this feeling, you should talk to him and let him know how you feel. maybe he is only too busy or has experienced sth very worrying. share with him and let him know you concern his feeling. if you keep hiding it in your heart, you will feel worse and worse. do you love him? do you want to keep this relationship? if you do, try to do sth. ending up a relationship without trying is the poorest thing in the world. i don't think you are the kind of person who gives up so easily. therefore, if you care, try. no matter what his answer is. at least you do not need to guess blindly any more. good luck.
參考: my experience
2006-12-20 6:17 am
打比佢.......關心佢...可能工作x力大,昭佢做咩事..唔出街玩呀

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