如何讓他更內疚！

那個人只是一個典型的現代男人罷了, 不是特別有勇氣, 也不是特別壞的人

我相信他仍喜歡妳(但請妳不要回頭去復合), 因為妳是走掉的那一方, 也就是說如果走的是另一個, 他喜歡的就是另一個

任何一個男人都不希望當壞人, 也不太喜歡開口說"不喜歡妳"或"我要跟妳分手"之類的話, 總是能拖就拖, 最好是對方提出, 免得背負一個負心漢的罪名; 最後的情況往往就會演變成三人行的局面, 讓兩個女人很痛苦, 走又怕蝕底給對方, 心想為何走的要是我?

所以恭喜妳能從這種局面裡引退, 不要有輸給對方的感覺, 最重要是要妳自己過得開心, 不要陷在無意義的痛苦中

也不用想辦法令他內疚, 對他最好的反擊, 便是妳過得非常好, 讓他知道妳沒有他是完全可以甚至更好

至於他心理狀況如何, 他是否還愛妳或女友, 是否因為妳採取策略錯誤導致分手等等, 根本不用去研究, 越早quit他越好; 就算他將來要回頭, 妳也要看他有沒有清乾淨之前的關係, 而且搞不好妳有更好的選擇

男人就係自私, 可能佢同女朋友相處得耐覺得悶, 而同你日久生情就展開追求, 可能係新鮮感! 或者你應該要多者佢, 如果唔係佢想同你一齊, 你仍然同男友拖拉緊! (我既經驗完全同你一樣), 我同男友拍拖五年, 大家都冇結婚意思, 同現任男友已經結識四年, 佢幫咗我同一個完全冇feel既舊男友有勇氣咁講分手!!

其實我覺得你們一開始就已經錯了.....
你們各方都有伴侶.....
可是就是因為你們兩個的任性和固執...
令到你們身邊的人受到傷害.....
在你們相戀的同時....
卻沒有顧及其他人的感受.....
我認為你不應有這樣的想法......
事實上.....
是你破壞了那男孩與他女朋友的關係.....
不能怪任何人.....
你要讓他內疚.....
你也應該說說道理.....
自私的....
應該是你才對.....
恕我直言....
你才是真正的第三者......
你跟本沒有資格離間其他人的關係......
亦沒有資格要求他離開他的女朋友......
像你這種人.....
我想....
如果我是男人的話.....
就算死我也不會選你做我伴侶....
你自已反省吧....

Your situation is exactly like my best friend. She is married with kid (7 yrs) and when she fell in love with her colleague and when they are very sure about the situation, she decided to tell her husband and get a divource since their marriage is loveless. Later, she discovered that her current bf is actually married and had not told any single one about his marital status in the company. He continues to see my best friend even though he claims he loves her very much but cannot leave the wife because of his obligations.

I find this man - like your ex-bf extremely selfish and totally avoid the situation when my best friend ask what he wants to do about their relationship. He cares only about himself.

After long and serious consideration, my best friend decided to leave him because he cannot face the comittment. At first, she has reactions like you but in the end, she decided not to waste her time on anger and move on with her life. Just take it she was blind not to see the truth in the man.

In any case, no matter how much you do thinking you will make him feel bad - he would not, only wasting breathe and time. Life is too short and I always believe what goes around will come around. There is such thing as karma.

佢既心理狀況已很清楚，佢唔會離開佢女朋友，佢可能同女友拍左好多年拖，欠一兩年就結得婚咁制，唔想做衰人，因為他已浪費掉女友的青春，當女友唔捨得留佢個陣，佢唔忍心，因為話晒女友都跟左自己咁耐，佢可能覺得自己係貪一時既刺激而同你一齊，覺得自己對唔住女友，佢咪覺得對住女友好內疚囉…他對女友的愛一定很變左感情的愛，平平淡淡，如果唔係你邊會咁易乘虛而入吖…也是責任的愛，而他對你的愛就應該係每對戀人起初的新鮮感和刺激感，是熱烈且甜蜜的。佢更本就唔會打算同女友分手同你一齊，因為佢過唔到自己嗰關嘛，令佢內疚的方法，會令你好辛苦的，就係以德報怨，你對佢非常好，好過佢女友對佢自己，佢就會因為自己俾唔到名份你而內疚，因為你在暗嘛…但唔保證佢會放棄佢女友喎…

或者這是你自已一相情願！如果他愛你多過那個她，他會自已決定，即使不迫他！
愛情就是這樣，一切隨緣！

或者這是你自已一相情願！如果他愛你多過那個她，他會自已決定，即使不迫他！
越是迫只會越有反效果，仲會攪到自已好chep！
愛情就是這樣，一切隨緣！