what is Jesus ' idea on the issue of sex and marriage?

The idea of marriage in the bible must be "one boy and one girl" , and christain believe that if you want to dating or marry, you can pray for that , Jesus will arrange to you.And Jesus 'idea on the sex:sex must occur "after" you are marry.So i know many christain only dating once in their life.

I am a christain,i argee Jesus idea on the sex and marriage nowadays, one boy and one girl going marry is already over 100 years,it does not have any problem,so i argee that.And the idea of sex,i think marry is the slybom of the love,if you are not marry you also have the chance of choosing other ,and sex occur before marry then it wii unfair to the next who dating with you.

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Since you asked particularly about Jesus' ideas on the issue of sex and marriage, I am gonna quote scriptures from Matthew.


---Adultery
27"You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' 28But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.

---Divorce
31"It has been said, 'Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.' 32But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress, and anyone who marries the divorced woman commits adultery.

Matthew 5:27-32


---More on Divorce
3Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?"
4"Haven't you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,' 5and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'? 6So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."
7"Why then," they asked, "did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?"
8Jesus replied, "Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery."
10The disciples said to him, "If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry."
11Jesus replied, "Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. 12For some are eunuchs because they were born that way; others were made that way by men; and others have renounced marriage because of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it."

Matthew 9: 3:12



We can see that Jesus has extremely high respect toward sex and marriage.
To Jesus, marriage is a life time thing. After two people get married, they are no longer two individuals, they become one. To cut yourself in a half is extremely painful so Jesus doesn't want us to do that. Sex is also sacret. One can even peek on another person; this is how high the standard is.

Hope it helps.

2006-12-11 15:48:03 補充：
And of course I think the word of God should always be in practice because we simply need this ultimate standard to guide us. However, whether people accept Jesus' teaching is another issue. Even people at Jesus' time didn't listen to him.