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愛解決唔到問題,你要認真同他傾一下,24歲不細了,要懂得為自己將來打算,佢有賭的習慣,你接受到嗎?香港生活並不同大陸,就算你有身分證亦未必能找到合適工作,你要有心理準備。養一個小朋友更是一種長遠負擔,你們要有計劃才生育,不過,如果男友堅持唔結婚,你就要為自己打算下啦,不要在他身邊浪費自己青春,記著愛是不能解決問題,也不擔保日後不變,請三思。有空可以去圖書館看書增加自己的知識,或去社區中心了解一下香港的生活環境,認識一些朋友,也可去勞工處,看看搵工方面的資訊,為日後搵工作好準備。

Of course you want to get married, have a baby, because you have nothing else to do. Now you are totally dependent of him, you have no other interest and that's make you think that he is the universe. 逼他結婚? What's happiness will you have if you have to force him?
生BB? Don't even think about it unless you are financially secured.
定係聽他講? I think he is right not to get married at this stage. But unfortunately you need to have an id card to get work. Talk to him. Tell him that you really need to work. Either get married and get a job in HK or go to mainland to work. If you really love each other you should trust each other, a little seperation may be good for you before you get married.
24 is too young to get married, you haven't really faced the world yet.

應該先結婚再出來工作.......搵到錢就可以生兒肯育女!!

我認為你要同佢傾, 看他對你的前境看法, 如果佢真係愛你, 佢好應該為你設想。講真你得24歲好年輕, 結婚不是大前提, 你的大前提是你應否留在香港做黑市居民, 虛度青春, 時間過了就沒有。

如果佢不懂為你打算, 你就應該為自己打算, 為自己找尋新出路。

其實女人唔應該一直只靠男人的, 你有沒有想過一旦他變心了, 你就白白浪費了3年青春, 如果你現在不能工作, 可以參加一些社區活動, 認識多一些朋友, 可以擴闊自己的生活圈子. 女4 不一定要男人決定去向的