my best friend is in a lot of trouble?
2006-12-07 1:07 am
ok she had sex with him and now she thinks she is pregant and he is 18 she is not going to tell her parents and she is going to take the abortion pills what do they do? do they work like a real abortion? and how can i help her...... oh yea she is 13 HELP!!!!!
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2006-12-07 1:13 am
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she really shouldnt take the abortion pills(if she can even get them) abortion is a big deal and she is to young to deal with something like this on her own. First she needs to really find out if she is really pregnant from a doctor.. Then she really needs to let her parents know so they can help her decide what her options are and what is best for her. You just need to be there for her and be her support.,
2006-12-07 9:10 am
If she is 13 believe it or not the best thing she should do is talk to her parents. They may be mad but they can help her if she really is pregnant.
2006-12-07 9:17 am
Wow! you are in a tough spot. If she wont tell her parents, a teacher she trusts, the school nurse or her doctor, then its up to you. If the boy is 18, then he could go to jail. Big decisions! Abortion pills have risks. She needs to make a choice that is safe for her. She could try a home pregnancy test. They can be accurate as early as one week after a missed period. Can you talk to the school nurse? I'm sure she doesn't want you to tell, but there are times when the best thing we can do for a friend is to tell an adult that we trust. The nurse can keep it quiet so she doesn't know that you spoke about this. I hope this helps you.
2006-12-07 9:12 am
tell someone for goodness sake, she is a child herself!!
2006-12-07 9:10 am
Just tell someone...if you dont tell then there could be more harmful problems later on...beacuse they forget to tell something
2006-12-07 9:11 am
Yes the pill works just like an abortion, but I wouldn't say the pill is a good thing to take. I've gotten an abortion before and I'd rather go thru that then to take the pill because at least when you leave the place you are done. But, tell your friend best of luck and next time to more careful. If you need anymore help email me at [email protected] or if that doesn't work [email protected]
Another thing your friend is not a slut, she mad a bad choice we all do. She needs a friend right now try to be there for here as much as you can. Good luck.
Another thing your friend is not a slut, she mad a bad choice we all do. She needs a friend right now try to be there for here as much as you can. Good luck.
2006-12-07 9:09 am
She might want to mke sure she is really pregnant; 13 is a little young.
2006-12-07 9:12 am
First off, your friend shouldnt be having sex. Secondly, when did this happen? If it was within the last 72 hours, then she can take the morning after pill. But in order to get it she needs to tell her parents, as it is only available through prescription for CHILDREN under the age of 18.
2006-12-07 9:12 am
by abortion pill u mean plan B pill or the morning after pill, im not sure exactly how it works, but if your friend had sex, she has the most 72 hours to take the pill, and if his 18.. well........ thats going to be hell for both of them, shw to young to be having sex anywayz
2006-12-07 9:12 am
You need to get her professional help at her age and your age it is very hard to play like an adult as you have not learned the skill with freedom come and lot of work and reasoning power,,,Good Luck.
2006-12-07 9:14 am
Abortion pills are believed BY DOCTORS to lead to death in some women...if she cant take care of the responsibilities then she shouldnt have sex..especially with an 18 year old boy..thats statatory rape..
2006-12-07 9:11 am
What in h**l.
SHE IS 13!!
Omg ur friend must have been raped or something.
Why on god's green earth would she be having sex at 13...with an 18 year old...well all i have to say is she screwed up her life.
SHE IS 13!!
Omg ur friend must have been raped or something.
Why on god's green earth would she be having sex at 13...with an 18 year old...well all i have to say is she screwed up her life.
2006-12-07 9:09 am
I can't give advice to a minor
2006-12-07 9:30 am
is ur friend u? lolz the pills doesn't work u need to see a doctor for that
2006-12-07 9:27 am
OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your friend is way too young to be having sex!!!!!!!!!!
she is in a terrible situation.......
She should have a home pregnancy test before she does anything like that.......
the abortion pill is not always effective I would not take my chances with it.....
If she is pregnant she should have a regular abortion to make sure it's 100 percent effective!!!!
the doctors who do it are very understanding and confidential and take great care when performing the termination........
tell your friend to use protection if she's going to be sleeping around with guys at her age... there are such things as aids and std's she should not take the risk at all, it's very foolish on her part
and the guys as well.........
she is ata very impressionable age and can easily be taken advantage of by guys who are only after one thing........
the guy should be disgusted with himself for even sleeping with a thirteen yr old girl she's just a child still, not good at all...
Good luck to your friend and all the best.
Maybe you should have a talk with her about the dangers of unsafe sex. I know at 13 you think your grown up and old enough to make your own decisions but at that age you are really so clueless...
Ibanez xo
Your friend is way too young to be having sex!!!!!!!!!!
she is in a terrible situation.......
She should have a home pregnancy test before she does anything like that.......
the abortion pill is not always effective I would not take my chances with it.....
If she is pregnant she should have a regular abortion to make sure it's 100 percent effective!!!!
the doctors who do it are very understanding and confidential and take great care when performing the termination........
tell your friend to use protection if she's going to be sleeping around with guys at her age... there are such things as aids and std's she should not take the risk at all, it's very foolish on her part
and the guys as well.........
she is ata very impressionable age and can easily be taken advantage of by guys who are only after one thing........
the guy should be disgusted with himself for even sleeping with a thirteen yr old girl she's just a child still, not good at all...
Good luck to your friend and all the best.
Maybe you should have a talk with her about the dangers of unsafe sex. I know at 13 you think your grown up and old enough to make your own decisions but at that age you are really so clueless...
Ibanez xo
2006-12-07 9:20 am
1) If he is 18 and she is 13, that is considered statutory rape.
2) Advise her not to get an abortion. It's true she's only 13, but she made a choice to have sex, and now she has to live with it. I'm not saying she should keep the baby or anything, but she can give it up for adoption. At 13, she's not ready to deal with a baby, but neither was she ready for sex. Adoption is a good choice because there are many good couples out there wanting to adopt a baby.
2) Advise her not to get an abortion. It's true she's only 13, but she made a choice to have sex, and now she has to live with it. I'm not saying she should keep the baby or anything, but she can give it up for adoption. At 13, she's not ready to deal with a baby, but neither was she ready for sex. Adoption is a good choice because there are many good couples out there wanting to adopt a baby.
2006-12-07 9:18 am
If she is a minor, I don't think she can go do anything without a parent's consent.
2006-12-07 9:18 am
oh my god!did she take a pregnancy test?that is really scary.i know how you feel.i am in seventh grade,and 13!that must be so scary.i feel your pain.did she use a condom?that is really important.she could die while giving birth at a young age!this is really serious!she is going to have to put her child up for adoption.how long has this been going on?or she could have surgery where they put you to sleep and cut the baby out of her stomach.get as much as help as you need.
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2006-12-07 9:12 am
the morning after pills you mean?
the offical name is "Plan B" but they only work within about 2 days i believe anything longer after that then you should just have the baby because it wasnt your babies fault that you got pregnant, dont kill the baby for your wrongful actions.
the offical name is "Plan B" but they only work within about 2 days i believe anything longer after that then you should just have the baby because it wasnt your babies fault that you got pregnant, dont kill the baby for your wrongful actions.
2006-12-07 9:10 am
If you get an abortion under 18, most doctors will make you tell your parents. The abortion pills might do a lot of things. Lot of ways to kill a fetus. Might make it stop undergoing meiosis or even make the immune system attack it. Maybe there are other methods, but I do no know of them.
2006-12-07 9:14 am
How did she get these pills?? Girls have died from those pills before. Although rare, it HAS happened. I read an entire article about a 16 year old who died from it and her dad had no idea she had done that. So tell someone. She is 13, too young to be taking things she knows nothing about.
2006-12-07 9:09 am
It is difficult to get pregnant at the age of only 13. Until she has conclusive proof that she is pregnant, she should do nothing. Then, if it turns out she is, she should probably get a professionally done abortion; I've never heard of abortion pills, but I doubt they're very effective.
2006-12-07 9:09 am
you can't just get abortion pills at wal-mart. you still have to go to a doctor. even then, they have to have them in your state. she might want to take a test and make sure that she is really pregnant first.
2006-12-07 12:31 pm
I suggest she tell her parents...I also suggest her boyfriend find a GREAT lawyer because they don't give "the abortion pill" to minors without parental consent and a doctor prescription, and her "boyfriend" is going to be charged with stautory rape. The only way YOU can help her is to encourage her to tell her parents. There is nothing she can do as a minor that they won't find out about anyway.
2006-12-07 9:33 am
I just wanted to say that I am not for or against abortion but if you are talking about the morning after pill it works within 72 hours not 48. I agree that she should talk to her parents. Even if she is pregnant and does decide to get an abortion then she will need as much support before and after she does it. It really would be a life changing experience maybe for the better or worst but I know that many emotions follow something that serious and life altering.
2006-12-07 9:31 am
Because your friend is so young, she must go see a real doctor. Hopefully she will confide in her parents, but if she's too scared to do that then there are free clinics in almost every city. She's too young to know what effect the abortion pill will have on her. Most likely she's not pregnant anyway, probably just nervous and feeling guilty. If you can't remember anything else, please remember and tell all of your friends to learn to use condoms. That way not only is there a much lesser chance of worrying about becoming pregnant, but you can greatly reduce the chance of herpes, aids, crabs and other std's.
2006-12-07 9:27 am
she might want to take a test and make sure that she is really pregnant
2006-12-07 9:21 am
Why did she want to have sex when shes only 13 years old. Any way to save your friend is to tell the parents that's smarting then nothing because if she was really pregnant you could tell first sign of pregnancy is
1. getting really sick and throwing up
2. She doesn't have her period
3. She starts craving lots of food then usual
4. A belly starts forming
5. cramps a lot of them
The best thing to do is to make sure shes pregnant and if she is tell the parents strait away. Even if she doesn't want her parents to know. Its the best thing for her.
1. getting really sick and throwing up
2. She doesn't have her period
3. She starts craving lots of food then usual
4. A belly starts forming
5. cramps a lot of them
The best thing to do is to make sure shes pregnant and if she is tell the parents strait away. Even if she doesn't want her parents to know. Its the best thing for her.
2006-12-07 9:15 am
I'm pretty sure that you are asking for your own knowledge, going by your previous questions. What were you thinking? Any 18 year old that would sleep with a 13 year old is just sick. He deserves to be in jail. Where are you going to get the abortion pills, you aren't even old enough to drive. I say grow up and get your life together. Hopefully you're not pregnant.
2006-12-07 9:11 am
have a real abortion fall down the stairs or something at least you can forget it after that
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