u tell her in a place where there are not so many people, then u tell her ' i love u' . if she stay there and just standing, don't force her. u just took her hand and maybe u can hug her also. if she refuses, just let her go, don't took her hand and pull her back. girls don't like people to force them.i'm a girl. i know the feelings.trust me, but remember a golden rule: DON'T FORCE HER!! good luck to u...