可唔可以分析下我係咪les??唔該....

2006-12-03 7:45 am
我係一個f.4女生,我係讀一間男女校既
兩年前我係一個壞學生(搞屎棍= =),所以我個班主任好唔鍾意我
成日好似針對我咁,所以我都好唔鍾意佢,就成日搞d野比佢嘆下,所以佢都幾想我退學(近住好多私人因怨)
係e個時候,另一個班主任(兩個班主任,都係miss)就撐我,仲不息同個衰人嘈
之後佢樣樣野都好幫我,之後我對佢好有好感,但係上年佢冇教我,小見左佢先發覺開始掛住佢又經常留意佢,提起佢,仲要發夢成日都發到佢(佢唔係靚,但係好吸引!!!)
佢之前知我有食煙好似有小小反感我就即刻戎左佢(想食個時一諗起佢我就忍得到)
佢有意同我接觸個時我就會面紅同個心跳得好快
連我d fd都feel到我好似對佢有d野咁
有時我對住d靚女miss都係咁,上堂對住d呀sir好似冇咩反應咁,但係一到miss堂就.....

我出街既時候都會留意d女仔,好小睇d男仔
的確地我對女仔好感度大過對男仔既好多好多

有冇人可以話我知我係對佢地有好感定係我有d les既傾向?

回答 (5)

2006-12-05 12:55 pm
✔ 最佳答案
你應該有les傾向,因為你講左自己明顯對住女性會面紅心跳同有遐想,
並且較喜與女性相處;
不過這種傾向是隨年月與日俱增抑或逐漸減退仍是未知之數,
因為這個年紀你既生活圈子仲係窄,
但照你所言你可能已有les的潛在性。

你有les的潛在性,自然會容易d對女性產生好感,
當然好感可以分開對男或對女,對朋友定對情人,
好感可以演變成的情感多樣化,你唔一定愛上了miss,但你的確對她有
好感才會發夢都見到佢,因為好感前提是你必須要喜歡果個人先得。


ps.由於覺得你同miss冇可能發展,希望你這份好感會由魂牽夢縈演化為仰慕、尊重,從而令自己向上努力,唔好再做攪屎棍,人生在世能有一良師實屬難得,希望你識得珍惜這難得的情誼(但切勿越過介線令她遠離了你)如何報答她維護你的情義同期望才是現下要做的。

2006-12-05 04:57:18 補充:
「介」字打錯左係「界線」
參考: me
2006-12-09 2:06 am
有一句話係分辨係咪同性戀既天條,就係「當你懷疑自己係唔係同性戀時,你就仲未係.」
對一d有恩於自己既人有好感,可謂百分百正常.miss對你咁好,你自己都知唔應該做d令佢難過既事,咁係人性既表現.其實「愛」都可以有好多種,睇黎你對miss既愛就唔多似係男女之間既愛情,反而似係好仰慕佢,好想多d親近佢,一種祟拜愛慕既感情.
ps.有人話女性係上天既藝術品,對女性呢種生物有好感,真係正常過正常.而家香港咁多不修邊幅,打扮到鬼五馬六既男仔,俾著我都望女仔啦!
2006-12-04 4:08 am
I don't think so....
I think you 只是尊敬她們.....
參考: me (I am half TB)
2006-12-03 12:35 pm
的確係有同性戀傾向,其實都係天生既傾向,無須要太介懷
2006-12-03 7:58 am
i can only give a brief guess, if you want a detailed one you are feel free to contact me personally ([email protected]), telling me your family background

now considering your 'good' form teacher, the most reasonable reason that you have such effect is that you sub-consciously set her to be the model of a good partner as she protect you so much and give you the sense of safety so much. you even want your future spouse to be the kind of person like your form teacher. so every time you see her, you have the feeling of falling into love with.

as this occur, you start to question yourself about whether you are les or not. then you begin to generalize your feeling to other similar female teacher, hoping for another person like your form teacher.

if you really want me to analyze more in a rational way, or in an emotional way, please really feel free to contact me personally. by the way, i suggest not to be molded by the sayings of your friends, as this will sub-consciously affect you. wish you find your answer


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