pls help me!!!!!!!!!!being played

love is a feeling, not time. you can fall in love with someone at first sight and never love someone who you knew for years. helping you on hw, having lunch with you, joining school activities, and talking about his stuff with you are not that big of deals even if you guys were just friends. it's pretty usual and nothing special about that really. not like you guys are making babies or planning to get married or something. now, that is a big deal. well, about his expectation of you saying words to comfort him when he's sick, it's not a big deal. people want to hear sweet talks no matter what. even if they wanted to know the bitter truth, they would still appreciate a sugar-coat. who wants to hear "are you dying?" when they're half-dying. i bet they rather hear "oh, poor baby..." instead. i guess he think he's close enough to you to command the care from you. to me, you guys are like in mutual relationship, rather than in a relationship when you said "he would be more willing to teach me." it sound like you're asking him to teach you, and he wants some return for teaching you. it is pretty natural for him (or guys) to talk shit about your male friends because of jealousy and stuff. as long as he's not acting weird toward your female friends then it's ok. you can be with a guy for whatever reason and for however much time you spent with him, but when it's about love, nothing matters, not time or distance.

問題係你對他有冇感覺?如果冇既話,咪做朋友囉

Well, personally, I think you really should think clearly about it before you start a relationship, and anyway, 1 month is actually quite a short period of time, you should wait and see if things change or if he still continues to act that way. It really depends on your own feeling, if you really like him, I think you can give it a try, but if you are still uncertain, you should give yourself some more time to consider about it. Anyway, these are just my personal opinions, just go with what your heart tells you to do.