幫幫我.應點好..
我同我男友巳經十二年.但佢從來都唔理我感受.佢永遠只會對人唔對事.我生完bb之後佢從來冇做過做男友同老豆既責任.當初佢費事煩冊都唔去註.我都算數.因為我自己係喺一個從來冇幸福兼覆習既家庭成長.所以我一直好希望自己個家庭會係好好.但發覺完來唔係.我知想同做係唔同.但四年前我同佢出去食飯.我問左佢一句點解我地冇嘢話題.佢就答我不嬲都冇話題.當事如果唔係有個仔一早就分手啦.我都算.我都繼續同佢一齊.然後佢話我成日係屋企對部腦叫我陪佢開工.就係咁就出事..我就認識咗大細孖佢地.本應都冇事發生大家都係朋友.點知有一日大孖話想同我一齊.跟住我當佢講笑.因為佢地知我有男友生埋仔而佢地都係有老婆.佢好努力追咗兩個月到我應誠佢話好.但係過左幾日論到個細問我.然後我話你唔驚你呀哥知.佢話同佢講咗佢話冇問題.咁我估佢夾埋一齊玩我.但我又話好.然後好煩.比個大知道咗.然後佢嘈不過唔係我係嘈個細.我跟住同我男友分手.個仔走兩邊走,因為個細對我好好.大家嘅性格同想發都一樣.最重要係大家個屋企都係咁只係佢多咗張紙.但我男友後悔想我跟番佢.但個細係唔會同嗰邊離婚.我亦冇迫佢.但大家都知大家好愛對方.咁我應該點好.
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恕我直言
你嘅感情生活都幾一塌糊塗, 無論你同你"男朋友"幾唔好, 都唔需要同佢d 朋友玩埋一齊哎, 人地重要係兩兄弟, 重要係結左婚, 你重話佢地大家都知道發生緊セ野事....
人地又冇話離婚, 話同你一齊之麻, 你夠同你"男朋友" 一齊左咁耐, 冇名冇份, 仔都生埋, 話同第二個一齊就一齊啦.
你究竟知唔知道自已做緊セ呀, 一段未完結, 重有条手尾(個仔), 一段三, 四角戀又開始.
セ野家庭成長唔係藉口, 係你自己識唔識得珍惜自己, 請記住顧及下一代呀.
先諗下你鐘意邊個先
再諗下邊個會比到幸福你同你個仔
尤其是你有左小朋友,阿細孖擺到明不會同佢老婆離婚
咁佢會唔會比到幸福你同你個仔?
你男友想你跟番佢咁叫佢即刻去註番冊結婚
睇下佢有mu反應
我個人唔讚成你做人2奶,到最後蝕底都你你
i see this as a story, for me a piece of paper is nothing ,now what you shall think is that who do you love the most(from deep down of your heart).however you shall think how you can get out from the old one ,because he is not the one in your mind what so ever ,the two you shall think is the two brothers (big and small) ,who would you choose ?? if (big)how would you face up small??if (small )can you be the wife in behind(2nd)
for me i will restart my life again without any of them,by that i think you will have a clear mind after awhile (a month or 2) maybe ,then you will know what to do than^^
hope you well
參考: me
首先,,有兩個做法:
第一,,你咩都唔好諗,
靜係諗你最愛邊個,,
之後同佢一齊.....
第二,,
邊個有能力 OR 生活條件比較好,,
可以照顧你同BB,,
跟佢..
參考: 自己意見
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