我公司有一個男仔，我對佢有些少的有感，佢性格開朗、爽朗...
但係佢係一個好大使的人，工作又唔認真，經常遲到，或者請假不上班‧
佢好多時同佢的朋友借錢，佢都有同我借過錢，但係我拒絕借俾佢，
今次佢又同我借三百元，佢話屋企有D事，佢話出糧之後會還俾我，
於是我借俾佢，依家借左佢三日，我心裡面有點兒忐忑不安，唔只係因為佢可能唔還錢，
且我唔想佢令我失去左對佢的好感...
同埋，我想問，咁既男仔，係唔係唔應該再發展落去...我自己又好想揾一個可以照顧我，
俾到我安全感的男仔，但係我覺得佢唔可以俾到我想要既野，雖然我對佢有好感，
但係我仍對有保留...我應該點做呀?
我鍾意一個男仔，但係佢同我借錢 (10分)
2006-11-27 9:44 am
回答 (9)
2006-11-27 9:10 pm
喜歡他，不一定要用錢解決問題，如妳覺得值得喜歡他，可以唔用錢幫他解決問題，如食飯，妳可以請他食………
2006-11-27 11:29 am
一個男仔問得女仔借錢都唔方好啦~唔要面架..仲要係同事炸喎~屋企有事唔係300就可以解決到呀
2006-11-27 10:14 am
你應該唔好再借錢俾呢個人,同埋同他做普通同事好啦!襯你重可以有所保留既時候,停止再對他有任何幻想!因為你已經知道/了解他係一個咁既人,又知道想揾一個可以照顧我，俾到我安全感的男仔,咁即係他根本/暫時俾唔到你想要既嘢!所以揾個第個目標啦!我以前都試過俾EX-BF借錢,借咗之後個感覺好怪同唔舒服!所以可免則免啦!
參考: 自己同朋友
2006-11-27 10:08 am
你話好想揾一個可以照顧你, 俾到你安全感的男仔,但係你覺得佢唔可以俾到你想要既野. 其實你自己都講咗個答案出嚟啦. 佢係一個好大使, 工作又唔認真, 經常遲到, 或者請假不上班, 這種人點會比到幸福你呢. 不要再想了. 天大地大, 找個其他男仔啦.
參考: 自己
2006-11-27 10:02 am
算把~. 冷淡d 對佢就好了
佢係唔會還錢0家~~
如果佢還... 小心, 係下一步的開始, 佢會問你借更多...> . <
三百蚊一個人格~~ 算係咁~~
係公司, 我都有好多心儀對像~~ 對對下... 就會習慣.... 無乜多感覺
辨工室時會有咁0既情況~
佢係唔會還錢0家~~
如果佢還... 小心, 係下一步的開始, 佢會問你借更多...> . <
三百蚊一個人格~~ 算係咁~~
係公司, 我都有好多心儀對像~~ 對對下... 就會習慣.... 無乜多感覺
辨工室時會有咁0既情況~
2006-11-27 9:57 am
唔 .. 我覺得妳心裡面已經有答案啦 ... 妳需要一個俾到妳安全感既男仔 , 而家未開始妳已經忐忑不安 , 又擔心呢樣果樣 ... 如果真係發展落去 , 我覺得會仲差囉 ... 另外 , 如果再問妳借錢 , 而之前果 d 又未還 , 我諗妳真係要考慮清楚啦 !
2006-11-27 9:53 am
講真....呢個男仔既品性真係唔係幾好,
大使少少唔緊要, 但仲要攪到問同事借錢,
咁大個人出黎做野, 個袋連三百蚊都無既,
咁佢第二時點照顧你呀?????
而且佢做工又唔認真,
懶, 又唔勤力, 咁就唔妨會有上進心喇.......
佢將來點算???
你不如仲係只係停留係有好感既階段,
就快快同佢劃清界線,
唔好俾自己跌個去個乙水度喇......
俾心機去搵過個有將來, 可以照顧你既人仲好喇.......
大使少少唔緊要, 但仲要攪到問同事借錢,
咁大個人出黎做野, 個袋連三百蚊都無既,
咁佢第二時點照顧你呀?????
而且佢做工又唔認真,
懶, 又唔勤力, 咁就唔妨會有上進心喇.......
佢將來點算???
你不如仲係只係停留係有好感既階段,
就快快同佢劃清界線,
唔好俾自己跌個去個乙水度喇......
俾心機去搵過個有將來, 可以照顧你既人仲好喇.......
參考: 真心話
2006-11-27 9:53 am
no need to consider la.
U should not start with this boy. Although u may still have fantasy about him but dun start with him. Dun let him know u have feeling on him, if he know this, he may start to chase u but u will not fall in love, but fall into a trap la
U should not start with this boy. Although u may still have fantasy about him but dun start with him. Dun let him know u have feeling on him, if he know this, he may start to chase u but u will not fall in love, but fall into a trap la
參考: me
2006-11-27 9:52 am
一個大使成日問人借錢嘅人可以負托終生咩???
一個錦嘅人連做朋友都嫌多la
去找一個唔會厄你錢同愛你嘅人好過la
一個錦嘅人連做朋友都嫌多la
去找一個唔會厄你錢同愛你嘅人好過la
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