How polite are you...?

2006-11-24 10:51 am
when you tell a friend something bad (something about his / her bad smell, about thinking too much of himself / herself), how do you do that?

回答 (14)

2006-11-24 11:03 am
✔ 最佳答案
include it in your conversation. and tell the friend you care about them.
2006-11-24 7:20 pm
mixing with some funny comments or something
2006-11-24 10:32 pm
tell them like it is but dont tell them in front of others
2006-11-24 7:29 pm
That's difficult, because you know that no matter how gently you tell them, they will be hurt. Just make sure it's done in private, they don't need to be humiliated too.
2006-11-24 7:18 pm
Say for instance, I would say it's sad to be born with bad smell, people don't understand them, but there's something they can do, etc I use the word they and them and not "you" Just make up a story. Always say you are sorry for them and what they're doing is not what they really want and what's happening to them is just temporary.
2006-11-24 7:08 pm
wow that would be a hard one. its hard hurting someone especially a friend.
2006-11-24 6:55 pm
ok so i'll go this way- "Look i really hate to break this to you but as a friend ive got to tell u this rather than u hear it from a stranger. the thing is that your mouth...um..it well...stinks. sorry but thats the truth. dont feel bad, ok?"
2006-11-24 6:55 pm
Are you asking for advice, or do you just want to know how I tell em?

Well the best way is to choose your words carefully, and make suggestions, not give orders. Like say maybe a shower will make you feel better

But me, I just say "you stink, take a shower" No point in beatin around the bush jus get it over with, they'll get over it later on.
2006-11-24 6:54 pm
blunt as trauma
but they know I care, so they take it in the best way
I have no friends who would not do like wise for me
2006-11-24 6:53 pm
Dude you smell. Might want to go wash your azz. He is my friend after all.


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