When you ask a person to bear with you, you ask him to

bear with scmebody
是一個 phrasal verb 解忍受
definition
= to be patient and wait while someone does something
example:
If you'll just bear with me for a moment, I'll find you a copy of the drawings.
如果你可以忍(等)一陣, 我陣間會幫你找那幅畫的複製品.

同義詞有 put up with sth/someone

when您要求人與您負擔, 您要求他回答: 您要有耐心

當您要求人負擔與您， 您要求他
回答： 有耐心以您

在這裡 'bear‘ 的意思就是‘忍‘！

當您要求人與您負擔, 您要求他回答: 您要有耐心