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The opportunity is oneself struggles marries ﹐ is not the person compares already

you should seize your chance instead of waiting offers

機會係自己爭娶﹐唔係人地比既
Don't just stand there and wait for chances, you have to gain it.

Chance can not get by anyone,
it should be get by yourself.

我唔知有冇英文成語係呢個意思，以下係我自己諗geh。
1. fight for yourself (when the battle is yours).

類似意思:
天助自助者
god help the one who help themselves.

chance isn't give by the other people,is striving ourselves.
我自己作,唔知啱唔啱,希望幫到你啦~

take one's fate into one's own hand

2006-11-15 07:31:33 補充：
take my fate into my own hand