他是我的同事,也是一對非常好的朋友,他不是gay,也從不懷疑我是gay,他一直想知道我鍾意邊個,我一直都唔講,其實我愛他我真的很想和他一齊,不過我知他永遠都唔會愛我,我就將祕密藏在心底,直到昨天,他一直追問我究竟喜歡邊個,那一刻我將我所有祕密同佢講哂,哥陣時我好想哭,我的手一直震,我真係唔知我地會唔會再好似以前咁close,咁friend,他好像接受唔到,有少少介意,我和他說我只不過想你知,我藏在心底真的很辛苦,我說我唔係想要d咩,我只想他知道吧.
我一邊廂說出了舒服了,但另一邊被他拒絕,我心情好茅盾,又唔知點面對,我點算??
我和他表白了我鍾意他
2006-11-13 9:05 pm
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2006-11-13 9:50 pm
✔ 最佳答案
我好明白你而家心情, 以前都有同性戀朋友向我表白, 雖然我拒絶咗佢, 但係我哋依然可以做番好朋友。其實好睇佢點諗, 照你講你哋關係應該都幾好, 如果佢真係因為哩件事而疏遠你, 你唔需要唔開心, 因為真係人之常情, 亦都睇真佢係一個咩人。情人同朋友係兩回事, 我個人分得好開, 朋友往往都係比情人更持久, 有人鐘意我我會好開心, 不論同性或異性, 起碼証明我有吸引力, 雖然我會拒絶, 但如果我地本生關係良好, 我會照舊當佢好兄弟, 好姊妹。如果你可以接受到佢曽經拒絶你, 而你又唔想冇咗佢哩個朋友, 你可以同佢當面講清楚 : 我喜歡你, 但唔係一定要擁有你, 只希望keep番你哩個好朋友, 你既然已經拒絶咗我, 我都唔會再有任何非份之想, 我唔能夠控制我嘅性取向, 但係我可以控制我嘅言行舉指, 唔會令你有任何不安, 希望大家可以繼續做番好朋友。不過你講哩番説話之前, 你要諗清諗楚, 你自己真係要講得出, 做得到。仲有, 你自己都要睇開d, 唔好咁執著, 好多時朋友總比情人好, Good Luck!!
2006-11-17 5:38 am
at least you have already told him that u like him....
whether he accpet u or not, that's another case.
Yes, is a very difficult situation, but i think you are very brave, and have the guts to tell him that you like him!!!
dun think too much, and find something happy to do and see what's his reaction or how he treats u from now on la....
maybe one day he'll be touch by u le?!?! who knows???
whether he accpet u or not, that's another case.
Yes, is a very difficult situation, but i think you are very brave, and have the guts to tell him that you like him!!!
dun think too much, and find something happy to do and see what's his reaction or how he treats u from now on la....
maybe one day he'll be touch by u le?!?! who knows???
2006-11-15 10:37 pm
我好想為你祈禱, 你知道同性戀唔可以有正常既婚姻生活,你知道應該找一個真係值得去愛既人... 我聽過有人靠住上帝,他本來gay,但他卻最終找到一個最愛他既人,和他結婚,永遠幸福,受很大的祝福.我知道你都一定可以靠住上帝,得到心內的平安和幸福 =)
2006-11-14 4:32 pm
其實你敢向他表白,是種很值得驕傲既表現,你收埋依個秘密咁耐,其實真係好辛苦,講左出黎,就算有咩結果都好,起碼唔會屈住係個心度,而且將來又唔會後悔自己錯過了一個自己愛既人,所以你要等他再接受你,跟你做朋友,同埋好需要俾一段時間他慢慢消化
2006-11-13 11:34 pm
你哋係一對非常好的朋友, 佢一定明白和理解你感受. 但千萬唔好迫佢接受你對佢愛, 如果他好像接受唔到, 就一切順期自然, 就當冇事發生. 大家當唔知, 唔好再講.
你要俾D時間佢. 唔好令佢有Hard Feeling.
Good Luck
你要俾D時間佢. 唔好令佢有Hard Feeling.
Good Luck
2006-11-13 9:11 pm
既然已經表達左出來﹐就再追問清楚究竟他點念罷﹗
將間事情搞清楚後﹐大家可以繼續做好朋友/伴侶﹗
將間事情搞清楚後﹐大家可以繼續做好朋友/伴侶﹗
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