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2006-11-09 9:48 pm
咁既,我識咗一個男仔,佢初時對我好好,但之後佢對我就好似忽冷忽熱咁。我好唔開心,我係度問佢點解咁對我,佢同我講自從同佢女朋友分咗手之後就一直再冇拍過拖,佢話而家忽然拍拖好唔慣。

我問佢佢又話唔係唔鍾意我,唉..攪到我日日都好唔開心,我都唔知點對佢好...仲有佢話我對佢好好,佢又話唔明點解佢對我咁差我都願意同佢一齊。

大家可唔可以教吓我點做呀??? Thx a lot ~ 唉....真係令我好煩惱,日日番工都會見到佢。有時我會係度諗佢會唔會係有其他意思,我都好怕佢講大話。

唉...大家又知唔知佢尋日仲離譜呀,咁我諗住等佢等佢放工啦,叫佢陪吓我,之後我send左mms 俾佢,佢話要番屋企食飯又話要帶公司嘢番屋企做,咁好啦,我咪話等佢食完飯去佢屋企搵佢。佢發我脾氣話之後先我好忙,食飯唔得閒理我,仲問我明唔明,佢話我係咁佢關電話。我俾佢激死了,之後佢就冇send嘢俾我,喺我放工之前send左個mms俾我問我咁你去邊,但我冇send番message俾佢呀!!! 我好想send番俾佢呀,不過又驚佢話我煩......

回答 (4)

2006-11-09 10:30 pm
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佢同我講自從同佢女朋友分咗手之後就一直再冇拍過拖,佢話而家忽然拍拖好唔慣 ----- 呢個就係答案

講真, 我幾明白呢個男仔既感受, 真係 sorry 的講句, 呢個時間, 呢個男仔根本放唔低以前果個, 更加唔想拍拖, 佢根本覺得係勉強緊自己, 係遷就緊你...而唔係你遷就緊佢

咁既情況, 如果你重堅持要同佢拍拖, 除左要忍受屈辱外, 真係要有堅強既耐性, 跟住再過一段日子後, 佢先會再考慮你唔係係值得拍.....

不過, 如果你又放唔低佢, 你可以退一步, 做佢朋友, (而唔係男女朋友), 你可能重會開心的, 因為佢無左 -男女朋友- 既壓力 (責任同義務), 反而可能會對你好好 (不過唔係男女朋友既好), 到某一日佢終於可以接受另一段感情, 佢頭一個可能係考慮你

*** 呢件事好難掌握時機 (即係幾時要放手, 幾時要做返佢女友), 真係要撞下手神, 同不斷留意先得

*** 希望幫到你 ^^ ***
參考: 自己
2006-11-09 11:14 pm
唔好搞到自己好似好cheap咁啦. 女仔黎加嘛. 一於唔理個男仔一排, 睇下佢點. 如果佢真係唔在意嘅, 咁我唸佢就真係唔鍾意你lor, 咁就算啦. 家姐成日話: 免強唔幸福.
參考: me & 家姐
2006-11-09 10:02 pm
我是男生

“佢同我講自從同佢女朋友分咗手之後就一直再冇拍過拖,佢話而家忽然拍拖好唔慣。”
我很清楚明白的確係會咁樣的,而你要多點說出你感受,因為佢未必可以揣摩到你感受。

“佢又話唔明點解佢對我咁差我都願意同佢一齊。”
佢唔鍾意你對好太好,至於點解...有很多可能性...不可亂猜,不過你對佢太好未必係好事。

“日日番工都會見到佢。”
見面時間多,就留多點個人時間比對方,愛情...唔係見得愈多愈好,反而愈少愈掛念。

“佢話要番屋企食飯又話要帶公司嘢番屋企做,咁好啦,我咪話等佢食完飯去佢屋企搵佢。”
留多點個人時間比對方,佢係你男友,唔係你寵物。

“我俾佢激死了,之後佢就冇send嘢俾我,喺我放工之前send左個mms俾我問我咁你去邊,但我冇send番message俾佢呀!!! 我好想send番俾佢呀,不過又驚佢話我煩...... ”
你唔應該煩佢既時候就煩住佢,應該回覆佢既時候又唔應佢...
你係愛佢就自己檢討下。
2006-11-09 9:54 pm
You'd better forget him lah, i don't think he is serious with you. Perhaps at first he wants you to be his gf / 拍拖, but later he changes he mind.

Don't waste time on him lah...
參考: my ex boyfriend is like that too

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