Is this true for many girls?
2006-11-07 2:13 am
Based on my personal experiences, and from what other guys have told me, it seems to me that many girls when they are in High School go for the older guys, and the "bad-boy" types. When these girls leave high school and enter college, the first few years, they seem to change this and go for guys their age (but still go for the "bad boy" type) and start viewing many older guys (even if they are only a year older than themselves) as "creepy". Then as they near the end of their time in college and leave college (undergrad school), they seem to mature and go for guys who are not the bad-boy type but more of the caring, sensitive, and intellectual type. At this point, many girls also seem to go for and or marry younger guys who have a high maturity level and give them attention that many guys their age or older don't give them. As I said earlier, I have come to this based on what I have seen and heard. I'am not saying at all that I'am right, and if I'am not, please tell me the real deal.
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2006-11-07 2:27 am
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Yeah I think you're pretty well on the money - just as a generalisation and not true for all girls and women (I dated sweet nerdy chess clubs types in high school and rejected all the bad boys).
2016-11-29 9:52 am
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2006-11-07 3:16 am
I think that for most girls, you're definitely right, although I'm only high school-aged and wouldn't really know. I'm attracted to older guys, sure, but for an actual relationship, I believe that any guy that has graduated high school is in a completely different place than I am, emotionally and physically. So I wouldn't really date any guys that are more than 2 years older than I am, but for many of my friends and classmates, you are dead on.
2006-11-07 2:43 am
likely true for more than 1/2 the population of gals, but i happen to be NOT one of them... :)
i'm 21, attached to an older guy who is not a "bad-boy" type. he WAS, though...
i'm 21, attached to an older guy who is not a "bad-boy" type. he WAS, though...
2006-11-07 2:38 am
maybe yes maybe no..
cos u cannot blame us for wat..
just gals need times to go out wif guys just for fun(ya.. we have to look around the world)when they'r still young
(why bad bad type.. bcos just the bad bad guys will drive a car & take u out at tat times)
at tat time(young & childish) we wont listening to our parents.. & make em cry & sorrow..
so.. when we growing up & we know the real life.. (cos we work & get the knowledge).. so, we had to change our life..
& jus rite now, we start thinking tat our parents r the best.. wat they did was 4 our good..
why younger guys..??
cos they r young & they got a lot of times.. to feed us up..
hhaha.. i think is becos younger guys more cute & we will treat em like a baby... we tender em & they can teach us a lot of new knowledge.. they r funny..
the one who older than us.... he will gone(dy) before us.. & tat's hurts..
cos u cannot blame us for wat..
just gals need times to go out wif guys just for fun(ya.. we have to look around the world)when they'r still young
(why bad bad type.. bcos just the bad bad guys will drive a car & take u out at tat times)
at tat time(young & childish) we wont listening to our parents.. & make em cry & sorrow..
so.. when we growing up & we know the real life.. (cos we work & get the knowledge).. so, we had to change our life..
& jus rite now, we start thinking tat our parents r the best.. wat they did was 4 our good..
why younger guys..??
cos they r young & they got a lot of times.. to feed us up..
hhaha.. i think is becos younger guys more cute & we will treat em like a baby... we tender em & they can teach us a lot of new knowledge.. they r funny..
the one who older than us.... he will gone(dy) before us.. & tat's hurts..
2006-11-07 2:31 am
Most girls while growing, are so filled with the now, most girl crail for a player-like kind of guy to get down with but on the long run they get to realise that he is really not suitable for them(in charater and loyalty), and they get to there senses and start looking for the ideal guy, even if he is quite younger.
2006-11-07 2:23 am
Okay, a lot of us just date different guys at various times in our lives depending on where we are in our life (IE: looking to settle down or looking for fun). If it didn't work out with the older guy, we go for the younger one. If it didn't work out with the skinny guy, we go for the huskier one...and so on and so on.
Everyone is looking for that certain someone to complement themselves, but aren't we all still trying to figure out who the hell we are? Maybe that explains the randomness of dating!
Everyone is looking for that certain someone to complement themselves, but aren't we all still trying to figure out who the hell we are? Maybe that explains the randomness of dating!
參考: Been there, done that!
2006-11-07 2:21 am
Hey I live in San Diego too!!! And what you said is probably true, for me I just go for older men but not the bad-boy type, and I am not in high school, but next year I will be!!!
2006-11-07 2:21 am
I'm in high school and I don't like bad boys.
2006-11-07 2:20 am
It's what you have seen, and what I have seen.
I think it is called, sewing your wild oats.
It's not just for the boy's anymore.
It doesn't sound like such a bad journey.
I think it is called, sewing your wild oats.
It's not just for the boy's anymore.
It doesn't sound like such a bad journey.
2006-11-07 2:20 am
i'm only in high school....
but idk...i guess i do sort of fall into the bad boy thing. opps.
dont get me wrong tho.
nice guys = good.
but idk...i guess i do sort of fall into the bad boy thing. opps.
dont get me wrong tho.
nice guys = good.
2006-11-07 2:19 am
You can never really answer a question like this with a blanket "yes" or "no". You've got a bit of truth there, in my personal experience. I used to have a thing for bad boys. I wanted the boyfriend that got everyone's attention; attention is a big thing in middle/high school.
2006-11-07 2:19 am
Depends what type of person you are. I would go for the ones i get along with.
參考: Me, myself and i = Amie
2006-11-07 2:19 am
In some cases yes inothers no. First off most girls are tramatised of the whole 'you'll date a man like ur dad' statement and go for something as far as possible from that. I personally like a guy who'll hang out with me and knwo the right time to sweet talk/ snuggle me. And the thought of changing a 'bad boy' to a romantic is really appealing.
2006-11-07 2:19 am
thats right in most cases. when a grl is in HS, we just like to fool around. but when you get to college and everything starts falling into place in terms of career and such, a woman needs to know that she can have someoen to fall back on, and you usually need a more mature person to fal back on.
2006-11-07 2:18 am
In highschool yes I went for older guys, but now I am 25 and am with someone 4 years younger. I am super happy, but sometimes I think we are at different areas in life and I am just wasting my time. If we work out great, but I think at times if I would have just stayed with my ex whom was my age, we would be married right now
2006-11-07 2:18 am
That is sometimes the case. some/a good amount of High School Girls do go fo rthe "bad boy" type, I havent really understand why- I gues they just dont want boring- they want cool, I guess if your going out with someone who is "bad" then you are cool or something like that. I never really found the "bad boy" type appealing. =)
2006-11-07 2:18 am
as long as he's gud to me is all that matters
2006-11-07 2:18 am
nope not with me. i don't date younger guys! and guys five yrs older than me.
2006-11-07 2:18 am
i'm a girl, but in my age, i do not go for the 'badboy' type. i go for the good guy. and also since i started to love someone, i've always looked for the one who is mature, it turns me on.
i'm not saying that all girls are like me but i just want you to know that some girls are different.
^_^
i'm not saying that all girls are like me but i just want you to know that some girls are different.
^_^
2006-11-07 2:18 am
I've never gone for the bad boys or older type. I'm in my last year of middle school and has always liked the sensitive shy caring type that are peaceful and in my grade. thats just a stereotype
2006-11-07 2:18 am
In general, yes, it is true. You've hit the nail on the head! I can't believe a guy has figured this much out about the woman mind...lol ;)
2006-11-07 2:17 am
I usually go with athletic, cute, nice,fun to be around people
I don't go for bad guy dudes but I like guys that are older than me so I'm 13 to tell you
I don't go for bad guy dudes but I like guys that are older than me so I'm 13 to tell you
2006-11-07 2:17 am
not for me... i only care if the guy knows kung fu so he could protect me. Girls need a feeling that they are protected by a guy
2006-11-07 2:17 am
women always like older men, it never stops. But when it comes to the bad boy, yeah that's about true.
2006-11-07 2:16 am
OMG, you've actually hit the nail on the head here!!
You literally described my life and all of my relationships and marriages!
John Edward, look out - you got competition!!!
You literally described my life and all of my relationships and marriages!
John Edward, look out - you got competition!!!
2006-11-07 2:16 am
seems like you got everything figured out, what do you need us for LoL:P
2006-11-07 2:16 am
I don't think you can pigeon hole young women into this behavior. I have found people and their wacky ways are as varied as grains of sand.
2006-11-07 2:16 am
When I was a teenager I went for an older bad boy type but I married him and he turned in to a good boy so my progression ended there.
2006-11-07 2:16 am
Yeah, what you said is pretty much on the dot when it comes to the romantic attention span of girls throughout their growing years.
2006-11-07 2:16 am
for some it is true.
2006-11-07 2:15 am
not for me
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