我愛他,好辛苦!!

2006-11-06 9:38 pm
我鍾意左個男仔,好鍾意好鍾意,好想同佢一齊,好想照顧佢,好想令佢開心,好想保護佢,好想同佢分擔開心同唔開心,但可惜佢唔係gay,就算我點用盡力去愛佢,佢都唔會鍾意我,其實我外型同樣貌真係唔差,動作都好man,現在還有很多女仔鍾意我,但我唔會同佢地一齊,我對佢地一d興趣都冇,我知道那個男仔永遠都唔鐘意我=我永遠都唔鐘意那些女孩一樣,其實這類經歷都試過好多次,我喜歡的人都唔可以一齊,還不可讓他們知道我係gay,我真係好辛苦,我想問點解上帝要創造同性戀?比咁多壓力我地?生活壓力已經夠大,我們還要承受這些壓力,又唔可以有正常既婚姻生活?大部份異性戀者都唔會明白我們而祈現我們,父母,朋友,我真係唔想gay,究竟我們做錯咩野?有時連一些基本需要都追求唔到,其實我最想問究竟那個男孩會唔會鐘意我?我究竟可以點做??
更新1:

多謝你地既意見同鼓勵!我知點做了,我會找一個真係值得去愛既人,我眼淚唔係為他而流,做朋友亦都可以好開心,我都唔抱怨我係gay,正面咁面對先正確

回答 (7)

2006-11-06 9:58 pm
✔ 最佳答案
愛一個人係無任何界限架,只要你係真心愛佢想佢好就已經足夠架啦.其實有機會同佢一齊亦未必如你所想咁好,最緊要而家你同佢相處得開唔開心先,開心既話咁咪當做住朋友或兄弟先囉,有時感情既野話唔埋架,或者有一日佢原來覺得同你一齊係最開心呢或者有日你又突然覺得佢唔係咁o岩你,咁就算唔一齊都仲可以做到朋友呀,總之一切隨緣啦,每個人都有佢開心與唔開心既時候架,唔好諗到咁灰又唔好比咁大壓力自己啦,做人最緊要開心呀.......
參考: 希望幫到你既人
2006-11-09 5:44 am
I think is very difficult to force someone like you.

However, if you really like him, you should respect him and let him choose, don't force him to like you la! You can love a person, but he doesn't necessary have to be with you!

It's easy to say and hard to do... but try your best and good luck man!
2006-11-08 9:29 am
愛就係咁啦, 好多時自己都係冇得揀的
2006-11-07 12:36 am
有同感,我咪又係同你一樣,不過我就差d,其實真係好辛苦又唔知可以做d咩喎,想忘記佢又唔得,打電話比佢又好似怪怪地咁!
另外問如果你同佢係可以經常見面咁都好,唔使好似我想見都見唔到
仲有如果你哋係朋友就仲好,有時明知佢唔係gay但可以經常見到佢又或者同佢做到朋友都未常唔係一件好事黎!換轉頭睇有時未必要佢鐘意你嘅,既然同佢都無可能就不如同佢做朋友咪算啦,如果係我可以同佢做朋友就好!!!!!

既然大家情況咁似得閒咪msn我,我都為緊 lee 樣野而煩!!!
msn:[email protected]
icq:319214607
2006-11-07 12:06 am
係佢身邊支持佢...
help him and love him behind him
this is also a way of love the other
2006-11-06 11:08 pm
如果個男仔本身冇呢個傾向既話
為佢好既話 你都唔好諗住點令佢鍾意你
你自己係gay應該好清楚做gay的壓力

點解愛一個人就一定要獨佔佢?
做唔成情人都可以做朋友咋~
最緊要係你同佢一齊既時間係開心既就得啦~^^

還有就是唔好成日諗人地點樣點樣歧視你地同性戀
對你地點樣點樣唔公平
你地首先就唔好歧視自己先
好似我班有個新來的gay
come out左之後成日覺得人地歧視佢gay
講野句句寸住曬...
固然係有人會歧視同性戀...
不過如果好似我呢個同學的話...
even我平時好支持天生有gay傾向的人
但你如何要我對一個這樣的人抱有好感!?

感到有壓力既時候
找個了解你的人講下~抱怨下~
唔知你有冇向父母或朋友come out
如果真係一個知你係gay都冇ge話你可以msn我都得...
我唔介意做人聽眾的喔:-)
參考: 我msn係 [email protected]
2006-11-06 9:43 pm
鐘意一個人冇罪...
而且...愛一個人...唔一定要同佢一齊嫁姐...
你可以為佢ge事開心...唔開心同佢分擔...
係佢身邊支持佢...

呢樣...先係真正[愛]一個人ge方法丫...


收錄日期: 2021-04-23 20:07:18
原文連結 [永久失效]:
https://hk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061106000051KK01413

檢視 Wayback Machine 備份