你地有無埋怨過父母生左你地呢?

你有咁GE想法,因為你生活得唔開心,想無左這種想法,就要改變你對生活的睇法,改變你睇野的角度,凡事向好方面想多些吧,總有一些人與事你會覺開心的,多想這些事情吧,有不開心,多找朋友傾訴下,會有幫助的...

我有...!因為我爸爸對我地唔好,有時見到佢對d孫,媳婦好好時,好唔知點
我屋企係極度重男輕女架...佢對住我地d女,一見到我地原本係笑的,即刻就黑曬face
有時個精神壓力好大....
so....我寧願佢唔好生左我出來

呀爸呀媽都沒有得選擇仔定女!!!沒有得選擇點解我生個仔或女唔夠隔離呀b仔叻又或者點解唔係呀李雲迪,唔係呀某某人ge,why,why???希望你自己想想,將你的位置跟你父母對調立場去看,(公平d)你又會怎樣呢?

interesting question.

You agreed that your parents are very responsible; that means they've done what they should do. right? If your answer is yes, the question lies on other areas as following:

First thinking:

1. why we are born; 2. whether life comes with suffering and/or happiness; 3. any approaches that may solve and/or minimize your present suffering

Second thinking:
1. Many new born babies/children are left/given up by their parents. How do they get to live alone well in society for their rest of their lives?
2. Many unables keep their living like normal people. Why do they do that?
3. Why all of us praise the virture of courages.

I believe that 1. we have no say in the issue of baby born but 2. we have right to choose how to live whether with courage or not.

In fact, life is not easy not only to you but to all. I'm one of them suffering as well as in happiness. So much happiness ahead, don't give up right now, don't be silly.

1,我有咁唸過,

2,而家人長大了,明白到父母都花盡心血想我地好,所以你唔好對父母有埋怨,佢地都有好多困擾,因為一個人嘅成長,需要花好多心血,真係好難捱落去,

koko

當然沒有...沒有他們,我又怎能學習做人呢.
當你過了十年後, 回頭看從前,便會覺得好笑.
因自己真的長大了.

我相信每個人都或多或少埋怨過父母，因為將自己的責任同過錯放向別人頭上，係比較心理上過得舒服少少。

我都有埋怨過父母點解唔細細個就好好督導我讀好Ｄ書，甚至迫我讀書，等我唔使出到社會工作，先發覺讀好Ｄ書係好緊要，攪到我宜家咁辛苦，日頭返工夜晚進修。

但其實講句老實話，自己都有責任，應該讀書的時候去左玩，你自己唔勤力，其實咩人都幫你唔到。

但起碼，如果將來我有小朋友，我一定要佢地讀好書先，讀書考試並非人生一切，但起碼有基礎打底，日後佢條人生路好行Ｄ。

如果你仲係求學階段，唔好再埋怨你父母，自己好好努力讀書把啦，你埋怨佢一世，你將來都唔會因此而改變，如果你已經出來社會做事，咁就勤力Ｄ做返你冇做好的事，免得老來要瞓街。

父母生我地出泥...雖然成日都話好憎佢地...但係都唔係真既...一時火過頭姐...

黃子華話對一個人最大既整蠱就係生佢出來﹐我都幾認同。
但係我絕對唔會甘極端埋怨我父母。