關於掃墓問題,20分

中國人的傳統是新山不用拜的,
所謂新山是指親屬剛去世之後的下一個春或秋的拜期,
因為出殯喪禮儀式一切有關的都已做過,
你外公2月去世,那清明無需拜,
但重九應該可以拜山,
其實拜先人都只是心意而已,
想拜就去拜吧,無話唔唔拜得的!
你同你家姐都夢見外公話冇野食,
大概源出於心理作用吧!
所謂日有所思,夜有所夢,
不足為奇的!

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你表姐出嫁 緊係唔洗拜你外公啦 唔拜係你表姐佢地既事
你外公今年2月去世 就近清明所以無需要再拜多一次
距離現在已經8個月啦 重陽可以去拜既
你地自己拜山既事 唔洗理d親戚講野 又唔係佢地拜 關佢乜事
你外公係你親人 想去就去 唔洗同佢地講 跟本無需理會
你鍾意日日去拜都得 只要你有時間就可以去
如果去墳埸要買定物品去 廟宇可以去到先買
要早些去拜外公 要多些錢 多些食物 再唔去外公好傷心架

Yup, you can go whenever you like. Those people who suggest not going are too superstitious. What are they scare? Doing good for the ancestors is a wrong thing? What kind of religious suggests that? I am the choir member of a church and needs attending the funeral ceremony of our friends from time to time, I am still alive. Dont be silly! Go with your sister secretly and dont tell anybody, your grandfather will appreciate.

u can go 拜 whenever u want... u can even go everyday... I dun understand why ur relatives said 唔拜得... u better go 拜 him quick, since he is suggesting that he has nth to eat!! Burn him some clothes and money too!