只想發洩一下我内心的煩惱!

2006-10-24 10:56 am
我的男人又再次抛下我,和朋友囘香港玩啦! 這兩年半的相處時間裏,他抛下我一人,寧願和朋友去trip,都無同我去過一次(過夜那種)。
我承認我真的有點不甘心,點解他可以那麽自私。我替他準備好一切去trip的用品,機票,證件,bookking(我花了很長時間打長途電話囘香港,才能辦好)。換來的沒有一句好聽的話,儅我告訴他我替他make a apointment的時候,他的語氣馬上變得好難聽。幸好,我是按他的行程做安排的。要不然,他一定會把我罵得[狗血噴頭]才會罷休!每次替他辦事,我的壓力就很大,甚至吃不下,睡不着!因爲如果我不能替他辦好,被他罵[無腦,白癡,無能....]已經是從輕發落了,更嚴重的他會趕我走。
你們,或者連他都可能會看不起我。是的,我是一個犯賤的人。難道愛上一自己喜歡的人,有錯嗎? 此刻,我真的可以哭出來,但我沒有。某程度上,我太理智了。愛上一個不愛自己的男人,結果就是這樣。我對他很好,無論是金錢或者生活裏的每一個小節,我都會替他操心。他也許是因爲我還有利用價值,所以才勉強讓我留在他的身邊吧!

回答 (12)

2006-10-24 11:27 am
✔ 最佳答案
我想我明白妳感受
那種可以為他不計較的付出但換來一次又一次不公平的回報及舞辱
但我知道妳是聰明的和理智的
因為施比受 更為有福

好姊妹
不用擔心
妳的男人時候未到
意思是妳還愛他
當一天
妳一覺醒來
覺得身邊的他不值得愛
我相信妳日後必十倍回收

請相信我
妳仍是大贏家
因為妳失去的是位不愛妳的他
而他失去的是位深愛他的妳
2006-10-25 1:46 am
既然係咁點解仲要做佢隻狗...
我覺得愛一個人唔係咁...
而且我並唔覺得愛一個人就要接受佢咁o既對待...
佢咁叫愛你咩?!
既然佢唔愛你...
我覺得你都係時侯要學識放手!!
2006-10-24 8:34 pm
見你內容都知你是離不開他的, 發洩下是好, 但好像大家說做人一定要自愛, 自己都唔愛自己, 人家仲點會珍惜你, 因你的亦來順受, 以至他的不懂珍惜又何苦呢~

祝你好運~
2006-10-24 6:51 pm
我以前都覺得,唔求回報既付出係最純真,
個男人終有一日會了解會睇到,會黎愛我。
但係...唔會架!!
人係世界上最狠心既動物黎架,特別對住愛情。
(唔好答我唔係,試問...
而家你愛住自己呢個男人,同時有另外一個對你好好,
同而家呢個態度岩岩相反既男人出現,
你咪一樣係會狠心咁拒絕人,
然後同人講...因為我愛自己男朋友!!)
佢睇到你付出,但係唔會因為你既付出而回報你,
呢個就係愛情點解控制唔到既原因啦~~
我見你應該係個比我大既姐姐呀,
咁既道理你應該一早就明,
但係做唔做到...就要睇你自己有無睇清楚...
個男人係咪真係愛你呀~~
係呢到留言俾你既,都睇得好清楚...你呢??
佢最後返返你身邊,唔可以代表d咩架!!="=
2006-10-24 5:48 pm
人類是可憐的動物
但可惜我們是人

我很明白你現在的感受
但愛一個人就要付出
要忍
可惜往往都不一定有收穫
算了
一切是命中所安排
可能上一生的緣
今生就作出彌補吧
祝心想事成
2006-10-24 5:10 pm
He is your boss, your master, not your bf
2006-10-24 4:56 pm
我相信人生要有無奈,要有遺憾才精彩,但......絕對不會是在被受不尊重底下的。你的處景我曾遇過,但沒有你這個程度,如果你的景況是十分,我那時只是六七分左右,不過你的感受我是明白的。我不知你的年紀,但希望你會好好替你自己的未來設想一下,你是否願意跟這個人共渡日子?你有信心他可以改變對你的態度嗎?看你的內容,某程度上他對你是有感情在內的,否則就不會有其他異性出現他仍會選擇你吧!假如你願意留下來,我想你知道,男人也是犯賤的動物,你越對他好,他越不在乎你,你嘗試換另一種方式對他,看看他會有何反應?
2006-10-24 11:20 am
I agree with all 3 answers above!

Don't make yourself so available (or cheap)! If you really love him, then I think you should also let him learn his lessons. Sounds like your guy is taking advantage of you, and just don't care as much about you as you do with him.

Make more new friends, so that your world doesn't revolves around just him.

And give yourself a vacation...Get away from him for a few weeks, maybe then, he will realize what he is missing out when you are gone/away.

If he doesn't treat you with respect, you should leave him, or give it a break. Otherwise, it's just going to be a matter of time before you can bear this "pain"/"non-sense".

Take things easy, and enjoy life since you are not his secretary nor his mother, definitely not his slave!

And keep in mind, there are many guys that are sweet, nice and caring out there!
參考: Just my thoughts...
2006-10-24 11:08 am
如果你的愛心可以對他容忍到咁, 你有無用同樣的愛心去愛自己呀?!
人地唔珍惜你, 你可以珍惜自己.
你俾佢食住, 係因為佢知你唔會反抗.
既然你俾佢的愛, 佢覺得係咁cheap, 點解你唔停止呢?
你可以去做義工幫D受苦的人同動物, 你幫完人, 人地仲會多謝你.
你個所謂男朋友當你工人咁. 連你自己都話自己犯賤, 咁外人可以講乜呀!
自愛D啦! 係時候要醒啦! 分分仲佢有另一個女朋友呀!
2006-10-24 11:02 am
識多d唔同既朋友,擴濶自己生活圈子,enjoy your life!

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