最近好煩躁...

2006-10-21 7:09 am
女朋友已唔再鐘意我......但我仍然...

亦因為這件事...最近惡了很多...沒再那麼開朗...收埋自己

想問失而復得既機會高唔高...?

希望有人會了解我既心情...被d意見,但唔好用「時間可沖啖一切」呢七個字...唔該晒

回答 (4)

2006-10-21 7:39 am
✔ 最佳答案
若你覺得煩躁, 就由得自己煩躁好了, 不要壓抑自己, 也要接受自己的自然情緒反應,只要唔好影響其他人就是了.慢慢地再檢討自己是否需要在這段情上下功夫.
個人睇法, 女孩不會喜歡跟自己唔鐘意的人長相斯守,應該不會回頭, 看作大家緣份已盡對你或會容易些. 請珍惜自己.
參考: 個人
2006-10-21 7:25 am
There is no need to forget what has happened between you two. Time would not help you erase the fond memory you have. Relationship and break-up are parts of our lives and without them, what would our lives become? I remember something Carrie Bradshaw in "Sex and the City" has said:

"Maybe our mistakes are what make our fate. Without them, what would shape our lives? Perhaps if we never veered off course, we wouldn't fall in love, or have babies, or be who we are. After all, seasons change. So do cities. People come into your life and people go. But it's comforting to know the ones you love are always in your heart."

I also remember something that I read long time ago (which is in Chinese):
也許愛不是熱情,也不是懷念, 不過是歲月, 年深月久成了生活的一部份.

The main ideas of these two quotes are: there is no need to forget what has happened. Equally important, don't try so hard to fix what went wrong or try to go back to the best. Life has to move on. I never intend to use these two quotes to bring you alot of comfort. But they are the reminders that give me strength and perspective when I experience setback in relationship (which I personally recently experience some messy relationship problem too!)

Hope everything will turn out well over your end very soon!
2006-10-21 7:14 am
if u keep煩躁...no lo...who like a煩躁bf?
2006-10-21 7:14 am
去追另一個女仔....因為女仔心死好難再追.

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