whats the best thing to do?forget or figure it out?

I will try to figure it out..we will talk ,,and whatever we agreed about, that will be the decision

Relationship is a compromise..it must be give and take.. You cannot decide a situation without consulting him. Neither he cannot make a decision without consulting you. Its a matter of communication to be able to understand one another..

The question must be..

AM I READY TO MARRY HIM? DO I REALLY KNOW HIM? AM I REALLY HAPPY WITH HIM?

if all answer is yes.. you will be able to figure out what to do.. love will directs you in a certain way even the most complicated ones..

if you like divorce then go for it :)

If he is "The One", you should figure something out. Otherwise move on.

well if you cant decide to live in the same country then i would say forget it.........are you jobs more important than happiness....if not then make the move.........and go for happy ever after

Forget it. If he really loves and understands you, he will not force you to leave with him.. In addition, you don't love him enough to give up your career and etc.

Stay away from the Internet. Give that dishwasher guy a chance. He may surprise you. You can make your own money. As long as he is not a scrub, who cares?

I think you should figure it out but only if you know you love if your not sure then i would say still try and figure it out

love isnt like it is in the movies. things just wont fall into place. you have too work at it. but it was selfish on his behalf to expect you to go with him. there needs to be compromise from both of you. talk to him. there will always be a way if you want it. goodluck

Flippin forget it, you are obviously not in love if you both are not willing to compromise. Get a new man and forget the dweeb! Good luck!

If you really are sure of this romance and the validity of it, then I say "Do what you have to". Don't let this romance die.
Ask yourself if this is really and truely what you want and if it is right. Look at all aspects of it.
Kids, jobs, environments, etc.
I say try try try to make it possible if it is the right thing for you.

You should have thought about that shet before, forget about marrying him & move on.

hey kiki,
figure it out!
but
running from a problems solves it too, for now!
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it all depends on how much you guy care and love each other. if it is worth being together then you should make it possible. if not, then go on your own way

if u love each other figure things out

Try to figure something out..