Every time you buy something, keep a journal of it. Carry a small pocket notebook with you, and write everything down that you spend money on.
Things you buy, vending machine purchases, tolls, parking meters, food, gas, EVERYTHING.
When you go back and look through it, you will see where you are spending too much.
A tip: If gas, tolls, meters, parking lot expenses, upkeep, etc, is whats bringing you down (gas is bankrupting our country right now) try taking a carpool or the bus, or even riding a bike or walking to work one day a week or more.
Try:
http://www.craigslist.com
click on your city and find other people or make a post on what you need or want.
Good luck to your financial future!