why can't girls and boys just be regular friends at first, you know, friends like we girls are with other girls...
and then after a long time together just as friends, we start to develop affection and turn it into a relationship?
isn't it healthier this way, and... you get to know the other person better before becoming bf/gf, right?
we don't need all sorts of "asking out" and "dating formalities"... how much can you learn about a person during a formal dinner where both of you are artificial?
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re w.b.'s comment: you know, there are other ways to show people that you "want" them other than dates... like, you know how we confide to other girls all the time? why can't we do that with boys they like too? that way we show them that we trust them and depend on them... this sort of friendship/trust love is much better than "ah, you're so sexy, i want to eat you alive!" do you agree?