step moms just dont understand?

u make the family disfunctional..try to compramise.

It sounds to me like the two one in all you are the concern. no be counted in case you like it or no longer, she does have the perfect to show you how to recognize what to do. She is the person and you are the infant interior the enjoyed ones. advance up and recover from it. The crap of "of direction I went over funds" shows an entire dismiss for others. She has no organization screaming at you yet i think of there is extra to the story and various historic past on your relationship. the final factor to do could be to seek for counseling with a expert. Neither of you is thoroughly perfect or incorrect yet there are some extreme themes to handle. be waiting to compromise. purely for the checklist, I raised my step daughter from the time she replaced into 2 years old. there have been multiple themes through fact she concept a similar way you do and in my residing house i'm the undisputed boss. Had she screamed at me, even at 15, she might have been over my knee and spanked earlier she might desire to get 0.5 a sentence out of her mouth. yet then, i attempted to consistently be honest and functional, even taking her area against my own daughter a number of situations through fact I felt the stepdaughter replaced into perfect. interior the top, you're struggling with a dropping conflict and making concerns worse with your physique of techniques. attempt working at the same time!

Well, why do you want to fight with her?
I believe you also treat someone better and someone not that good, aren't you?
If you are jealous, you can try to be friendly with her, not to fight with her. It doesn't help.

You are right,but take it easy you have to talk to your
dad and solve the problem together.

Try sitting your Dad down and tell him how you feel. He may not even realize how you feel about his girlfriend or how she is treating you. Don't get into a fight with her that may land you into trouble. Try to stay calm and get Dad to help you sort through your feelings. Good luck and God bless

Speak to your dad. Don't say, "she bosses us around. She prefers my sister and her daughter.' Start your sentences with 'I feel.' 'I feel she treats my sister and her daughter better.' Then the answer,'She doesn't', isn't enough, if you fell that way then something needs to be done. What about trying to spend some time just with her? Fighting never solves anything. You will make her mad and that will make your dad mad and you will have achieved nothing.

Dad may have asked step-mom to help out, because he might feel that you need female guidance.

If you are a minor, and she is an adult, it is up to you to respect her (especially for your dad's sake) do not fight with her.

Another thing--if she's your dad's girlfriend and not wife she is not yet your step mom

Try 2 be sociable 2 here, if not at least civil.u don't have 2 like her n if she doesn't like u so what.talk 2 Ur dad privately about it or maybe u should try n make friends with this woman remember though u both like the same man, Ur dad and do not want 2 make his life hell.

kick her a$$!! just kidding. i think you should explain to her how you are feeling and go from there. you really don't want to start something that will upset everyone. so you 2 don't like each other big deal but you both like your father so i think you should try your best to get along with her. and if that doesn't work don't go to your dads when she is there.

talk to your dad. but do it in a polite and constructive way, for example say things like "i feel" and then tell him how she acts towards you. if you keep a cool head and explain things in a nice way, he's more likely to listen to you. if you scream and shout that she's a b**** then he will just think you're being a teenager. as for her bossing you around, if she does marry your dad she will have the authority to tell you what to do. i have two step kids who hate me with a passion. their mom taught them to hate me and they are very good at it. she has told them that they do not have to listen to me when they are in my house and that they can do what they want and swear at me all they want to. being a step mom isn't easy, so talk to your dad, tell him what's going on, and see if you and he can work things out. good luck.

ask if she has a problem and if she does then try to compromise and if she doesn't want to then you can fight her

talk to your dad and let him know how you feel. Let him know your not trying to break them up you just feel mistreated.

Ohhhhhhh....Cinderella, dont you worry your pretty little head. Your fairy Godmother will appear...as will your prince!

talk to your dad! by fighting with your step-mom, you're putting your dad in a really bad position. obviously, he would choose his own child over some girl, but don't you want your dad to be happy?

just leave it...you can only make things worse. try to be nice to her and bond with her...she only has good intentions.

Fighting is never the answer to a problem. Your best way to solve it is to talk with Dad and his girlfriend at the same time and tell them both you don't like what is going on.