how does one become confident to talk to anyone without being nervous...from pretty girls to random strangers?

2006-04-14 12:23 am

回答 (8)

2006-04-14 12:30 am
✔ 最佳答案
1. Think before saying something.
2. Be yourself... don't act in some way because you think that's how the person wants you to act.
3. And last but not least just tell yourself that the other person is no more or less then you are... If they think they are, then I'm pretty sure you don't want to know people like that. :D
2006-04-14 2:50 am
Don't care you are talking to pretty girl or ramdom stranger, speak more and more. Having speeches everyday, if you can't find someone to listen, face the mirror and speak to yourself. Until you think you are perfect, you are confident to yourself.

Another way is to find a job of sales, you have to speak and speak, and trying to do more explanation. Let the people know you are honest and serious.
2006-04-14 12:56 am
What I did was to essentially become shameless. After dancing naked on a nightclub podium I have never had trouble talking to anyone.
2006-04-14 12:36 am
just go up to them and say hey whats up...hows it going...and if you have a class with them ask them about something that you did. GIRLS love it when a guy just talks to them. it makes them feel more confident. A stranger...just say hey! good morning/afternoon! Usually things play out on its own!
GOOD LUCK!
email me if you need nemore help!
2006-04-14 12:29 am
If you worry excessively or more than the average person about talking with people, you may have what is called social anxiety. I have it and my doctor prescribed Paxil to help with symptoms. It has helped me tremendously! Do a web search on social anxiety and see if it sounds like you. If it doesn't, you may just need to practice talking with new people and build up some confidence! Good luck!
2006-04-14 12:27 am
get a job. seriously. i was a shy person till i got my first job. i couldn't be shy, it was part of my job to talk to the customers. now i can talk to anybody anytime. i don't really find anyone intimidating.
2006-04-14 12:27 am
Don't over think it. Just do it! The more you think about it the more you give yourself time to fear it. Too many details will run through your head and clog your ability to perform.
2006-04-14 12:26 am
Hey... I would suggest joinnig this organization... Toastmasters International. http://www.toastmasters.org/

Toastmasters offers a proven way to improve your communication skills. By participating in a fun and supportive Toastmasters group, you'll become a better speaker and leader and gain confidence to succeed in whatever path you've chosen in life.

收錄日期: 2021-04-28 23:21:56
原文連結 [永久失效]:
https://hk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=1006041316703

檢視 Wayback Machine 備份