✔ 最佳答案
What i did, was take time out from dating, to get to really know myself, what i really want, how I will get it, what I want from the man & the relationship, til you do all that & more you will find & go with the same kinda guy you were married to, because that's what your used to & comfortable with. I went 9 yrs & didn't date, it was time enough for me, you may not need that amt of time, my marriage was very abusive, so I had to know in my heart I truely had put down the old baggage & was ready to trust again, I also knew I wasn't gonna do everything to keep the man happy, I wanted happiness too, hope this helps
參考: My personal thoughts & from experiance.