How can i open my heart and fall in love again? caise i,ve been divorced once.?

2006-03-11 2:28 pm

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2006-03-11 2:38 pm
✔ 最佳答案
What i did, was take time out from dating, to get to really know myself, what i really want, how I will get it, what I want from the man & the relationship, til you do all that & more you will find & go with the same kinda guy you were married to, because that's what your used to & comfortable with. I went 9 yrs & didn't date, it was time enough for me, you may not need that amt of time, my marriage was very abusive, so I had to know in my heart I truely had put down the old baggage & was ready to trust again, I also knew I wasn't gonna do everything to keep the man happy, I wanted happiness too, hope this helps
參考: My personal thoughts & from experiance.
2006-03-12 10:43 am
Let God take away the pain. Pray. You need to pray. My man
has been down the same road like you. He told God to send him a virtuous woman. He told God what kind of wman he wanted. God sent me to him. And we are still together and he is very happy. Everyone around him sees how happy he is.
When you let God send your mate, you can't go wrong.
2006-03-12 12:27 am
Of course you can! There is nothing that says that you can't fall in love again, unless....... You were the one that caused the divorce.

JUST KIDDING
2006-03-11 11:39 pm
i also divorced one time and its difficult for me open my heart to guys but i think you can b open your heart and fall in love if you could find good person , dont need hurry just wait is better untill find good person .
take it easy!
2006-03-11 11:36 pm
You've tried it on your own and it did not work, now try God and wait for Him to send you you're mate. Put God in the middle of things and I guarantee things will work. Put your total trust in Him, instead of searching for that perfect someone, tell God what you're looking for (be specific) and believe Him for it. In the meantime, praise and thank Him for it as if it's already done. God Bless You.
2006-03-11 11:09 pm
The right person will come along and take care of that.
2006-03-11 10:55 pm
exceedingly no-picnic, ma'am.
2006-03-11 10:39 pm
once the time is right for you, you will be able to do this. don't rush though. it's not fair to you or to the potential other person.

your heart needs time to forgive and heal, and your mind needs time to find out who you are and what's important to you as an individual again after your divorce. just take your time, as much as you need, it's ok to be very very selective. there are groups in your community that can help you with this if you feel comfortable in sharing... check with a local church or ask a friend for referrals.

good luck, there are many who share what you're feeling. if it makes you feel better, you're not alone...
2006-03-11 10:39 pm
You should think over the reasons that led to your divorce. If the fault lies in you, then make sure you wont repeat the same mistake that may lead to another divocre. If the reason is a physical one, then I suggest you see a doctor to solve that problem. But if the reason for the divorce is due to your ex-wife, then I see no reason why you should not open your heart and woo another woman and get married.My best wishes to you anyway...
2006-03-11 10:35 pm
can't you write a better english? i don't understand you
2006-03-11 10:35 pm
i am divorced twice and i refuse to give up
2006-03-11 10:34 pm
let go of your past and move forward
2006-03-11 10:33 pm
Yes..many many many times if you want to..

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