Is he serious about the relationship?How can I find out?
2006-03-08 5:41 pm
I knew my caucasion boyfriend through internet since last December. He's at the other side of the earth, we never met and only talked over the phone once a while.he doesn't like to write emails,but he will write me an email with a few sentences,such as 'i love u','i miss u' almost everyday. however, i prefer emails than phone calls because of the time different, whenever he calls me, it's always between 10.30pm to 2am in my area.we never talk much over the phone. I told him that I wish he could tell me more about him through emails,but not much change.i told him that i could never move over to his country to live with him, he said we could work it out somehow.But the only way i know is that he must find a job in my region.And besides knowing something about his family and his job through the first few emails, i almost know nothing else. Shouldn't he tell me things like how he spend the weekend or the day,any small thing during the day? until now, i am still not sure if he is serious...
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2006-03-25 9:12 am
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I don't think its gonna work. take it as puppy love or its gonna be disaster.if you really want to find you, check if his emails to you tend to repeat the same thing. if yes, then he probably been sending the same saved email to everyone. or, email him asking about things that he can only tell you and not to general public, and if his reply tend to be different in style of what he used to write, then you're not the only person he's writing to.
2006-03-12 8:44 am
I hate to be negative but I am going to tell you what I think because you asked and I think I should be honest...
It sounds like you are investing a lot more time and effort into the relationship than he is. It sounds like he is stringing you along. How can he say he loves you if he hasn't opened up to you and never has any real communication with you? How can you love someone who you know so little about? You know next to nothing about him and have asked for info but he has not given you any. That sends up huge red warning flags in my mind. He seems very non-committed to letting you get to know him, and it seems that if he really cared he would want you to be a part of his life and share things with you... everything from what he did that day to what his plans are for the weekend or how things are going with his family...hobbies, likes, dislikes, favorites, pet peeves, religious beliefs, political views, goals, dreams, past, etc... He doesn't sound very serious at all... I am afraid you appear to be investing in a relationship that is one-sided.
It sounds like you are investing a lot more time and effort into the relationship than he is. It sounds like he is stringing you along. How can he say he loves you if he hasn't opened up to you and never has any real communication with you? How can you love someone who you know so little about? You know next to nothing about him and have asked for info but he has not given you any. That sends up huge red warning flags in my mind. He seems very non-committed to letting you get to know him, and it seems that if he really cared he would want you to be a part of his life and share things with you... everything from what he did that day to what his plans are for the weekend or how things are going with his family...hobbies, likes, dislikes, favorites, pet peeves, religious beliefs, political views, goals, dreams, past, etc... He doesn't sound very serious at all... I am afraid you appear to be investing in a relationship that is one-sided.
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