Spend money I do or don't have on specialty soaps, perfumes, shoes, purses, lingerie and jewelry. Fortify shopping trip with cocktails, shop more. Take a cocktail hour and get kinda tipsy....go back and make that outrageous purchase, head home, dump it all on the bed and play with it, blend something sublime, flop on the couch and flick through a magazine. It's pure girlie, senseless pleasure.