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First, the pooping-in-the-bedroom behavior is not revenge. Dogs simply do not have the planning ability for revenge. It is probably due to the dog being nervous after the scary dicipline and needs to eliminate. It runs away to a quiet place where you are not present and relieves itself.
Let's say the dog jumps onto the counter for food. Dog thinks this is great, but us humans think this is bad behavior.
You could be positive and just say "No" and remove the dog. Dog does it again, you remove him again. Each time give the dog a small food treat on the floor. The dog will learn there is no percentage in jumping onto the counter, and it will stop eventually. It will learn that food treat happen when it is on the floor. Yay! It may take a week of repetitions. However, the dog does not get nervous and look to run somewhere and eliminate.
You could be negative and be yelling "Off! OFF! OFF! Get off there, you foul Minion of Hades!" followed by hitting the dog. Dog gets very upset and wants to run away and hide and empty its nervous bowels. When the dog is hiding it is no longer in your control. Uh oh. Now you have a dog that absolutely needs to poop, and is hiding from you. You set up the perfect conditions for the dog to make the second mistake. And you have to clean up afterwards.
Only when us owners change our behaviors will the dog change it's behaviors. This was a very, very difficult thing for me to learn as an owner.
參考: read "The Culture Clash" by Jean Donaldson